The more TV/movies I watch, the more attracted I am to older men (think 40s+). Feels weird, considering how I’m usually attracted to guys who have baby faces.
It’s 1am so I’m sorry for the people who won’t see this. But if you want confidence and don’t know how to get it, a really good way is to be confident in other people. When you walk into Starbucks, think, “damn, that barista’s hair is da bomb!” Or when you go to school, think, “my teacher is rocking that skirt!” When you start seeing everyone as being beautiful, at some point you realize that you’re everyone too.
Thinking about my ex and his misogyny, racism, fat-shaming, and general dickishness…ugh how was I even attracted to someone so repulsive.
if you preach body (or body hair) positivity but have the nerve to tell someone that they have “weak eyebrow game” you need to realize that you are completely disregarding people who suffer from trichotillomania, have alopecia or any other hair loss disorder, have gone through chemotherapy, as well as people who are not allowed to or simply prefer not to pluck and groom. please think twice.